In October, I read That Was Then, This is Now by S.E. Hinton. That Was Then, This is Now is a 171 page coming of age story about two friends, Bryon and Mark, who live in Tulsa, Oklahoma in the late 1960s. This novel is about the two boys’ lives as less fortunate individuals, and their overall different views that they take on in life as they go through problems with friends, each other, and other relationships during the period of the book.
Something that I loved about this book was that the author wrote it very realistic to what I think a sixteen year old boy, or just teenagers, would act and feel like. This story is set from Bryon’s perspective, and includes him and Mark doing some dumb things, like getting into fights with each other and other people, mostly about little things, but sometimes about protecting one anothers honor and feelings. While sometimes immature, their thoughts and feelings were still real and not just brushed over or barely acknowledged. Their friendship seemed like it could never be split apart.
My favorite character is M&M. M&M is a thirteen year old boy, who got his nickname from his love for the famous chocolate candy. He is described as honest and nice, but a little strange. A quote that represents his honesty is found on page 23, when M&M said, “You make me sick! You just rescued me from some guys who were going to beat me up because I’m different from them, and now you’re going to beat up someone because he’s different from you. You think I’m weird — well, you’re the weird ones.” This phrase shows his honest demeanor because he said what he thought, even though Bryon and Mark clearly weren’t thinking about what M&M would’ve thought about their wrongdoings. The two boys obviously are bigger and stronger than M&M, but he still spoke his truth, instead of being afraid of what they could do to him.
My favorite quote from this book is found on page 89, “I guess I just couldn’t see standing there — alive, talking, thinking, breathing, being — one second, and dead the next.” This quote is important to me because it shows how hard grieving is for a person to grasp. When someone dies, they are gone. Most people’s minds can’t comprehend how somebody can just be gone forever so quickly. People grieve in all different ways, but it is hard for everyone. Bryon, at this moment, was in denial about the death of someone close to him, and didn’t know how to believe he was truly never coming back. He was confused about everything, why his friend died, and why he didn’t seem to feel angry or sad, but not happy either. Just numb.